Friday, September 21, 2007

Problem solving...at least an attempt

How could I be angry with her? She had a problem and solved it. But in fact, anger did not even enter my mind – humor and laughter did.

Katelyn and I were doing a project at the kitchen table. I left the room for a minute and came back to her bright blue eyes giving me a big smile. I gave her a smile back and then started laughing, laughing so hard that I had to turn my back so not to be rude to her.

Notice anything?


Yep, those are her SUPER short bangs, which she cut ALL BY HERSELF! She said her bangs were in her eyes so she cut them so they would not bother her anymore. But wait! She had a PROFESSIONAL hair cut LAST WEEK! Who needs to spend $20 on a child’s haircut anymore, just give the scissors to your three year old and they’ll get the job done, for free. And the best part…she did it over the trash can so not to make a mess and have me upset with her, as if cutting your bangs SUPER short isn’t going to make your mom angry or anything.

Saturday, September 15, 2007

First Day

Katelyn started school again this past week. It was a great day for her! School brings her so much joy and happiness. She beams when at school, loving the social interaction, the jobs she completes, and the friendships she makes.

When asked what she did at school, Katelyn told me, “I liked school. I made new friends and played. I did nothing else.” Somehow, I think she did a little more than that!

I wondered if this was a preview of a future conversation with a 13-year-old Katelyn?

Me: How was school?
Katelyn: Fine
Me: What did you do today?
Katelyn: Nothing
Me: Did you do anything exciting?
Katelyn: Nope

So much to look forward to!

Wednesday, September 5, 2007

Coming to an end...

Here we are, beginning of September. Technically, summer has a few more weeks remaining, but the transition is already underway. This summer was busy, just as is every day in every season. We started June off with a ballet recital – Katelyn’s first! She’ll continue ballet class again this year, with the addition of an introduction to tap. Picture this: a room full of 3 year olds wearing pink tutus and silver sequence…adorable (with a few laughs mixed in).
Katelyn took swimming lessons for several weeks and it was amazing to watch her ability and comfort in the pool grow weekly. She had a wonderful teacher who was very patient; especially considering Katelyn was the youngest in the class by a few years.
Fourth of July was a well-needed family break in Tahoe. We spent time at the lake, playing in the yard and taking walks. The girls had their first rafting experience down the Truckee River. Both did extremely well and it will only be better next time. Bill and Katelyn were treated to a very special fireworks display – seeing them up-close from the water’s side! Vanessa had dislocated her elbow, so I had to say home with her, but didn’t mind too much because it was wonderful to hear the night’s activities recapped through the eyes of Katelyn.
We spent a weekend camping with some good friends. It’s a lot of work setting up camp, but the fun times had by all were well worth it. The girls made their first smores and got every inch of their bodies filthy each day, proving to me just how much fun they had that day. Katelyn had her first tubing experience – and loved every minute of it!
Vanessa kept busy with gymnastic class and therapy. She still loves the balance beam, the free-play ball time and, of course, bubbles. She is always so happy to be there and her endurance for the class is lengthening.
She loves the water as much as Katelyn, in fact has no fear or reservations about it. She will jump from the side of the pool into your waiting arms a dozen times, each time with a huge grin and an immediate “more” (in sign language).
In the beginning of August, Bill and I took a very-overdue weekend away. We have not been away from both girls since before Vanessa was born. Everyone survived - including the grandparents!

One of our favorite family outings is to the Monterey Bay Aquarium. To see the world, at least the sea-world, through the eyes of a 1 and 3 year old is just eye-opening. We have been several times this year and each time discover something new. In this recent visit, the girls had an opportunity to touch-and-see live sea creatures, which, of course, Vanessa had no reservations about sticking her hand into the water and pulling out a starfish to bring home as our new pet. (That is Bill's hand in the picture, trying to make sure we didn't end up with too many starfish on the floor!)And now, here it is…September. School begins for Katelyn next week. The girls’ extra-curricular classes are starting back up. “Routine” and “schedule” are now regular words in our vocabulary again. I love this time of year because it brings so much structure to our lives…I know what’s going on every day and it just feeds my Type-A personality. I am longing to see Katelyn thrive in school and grow in her confidence through her classes. I am anxious to see Vanessa develop into the adorable toddler she is becoming and surprise me more and more with each passing day.

But there are things that I will miss…No more relaxed evenings with 10pm bed times for the girls. No more 5pm ice cream treats. No more p.j.-until-1pm days. Even though the days of summer are ending, I am looking forward to the next season in our journey.

Tuesday, September 4, 2007

Just in case

Last night I was turning down the blankets on my bed. To my surprise, hidden under were one sock and a child-size spoon. For what you ask? Well, of course, in case one of my feet gets cold. Why would both of my feet be cold at the same time? Don’t you sleep with just one sock on? ONE! Or maybe I’ll have a midnight craving. No need to worry – I have my spoon ready! Who needs a fork or a knife? Rest assured I wouldn’t be fumbling around in the kitchen looking for my spoon – its right here in bed with me.

This just made me laugh. Two completely unrelated single items found hidden among my bed. I wonder who could have put them there…

Saturday, September 1, 2007

Six Years Ago


As he leaned over this morning to give me a good morning kiss, two little girls were prying their way in-between us, apparently analyzing every detail of our quick peck on the lips. And then he turns and says, “See what we started?” “What do you mean?” I ask. “Six years ago today, we started this” nodding his head towards the girls…

Happy Anniversary my Love. What an event-filled year this has been, bringing us laughter and tears, joys and sorrows, and always love. I love you and look forward to many more interrupted morning kisses.